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I Don’ Wanna but I’m Gunna
I have been out of the game for a minute. Trying to write, but the place I have been in isn’t exactly a place I should write from gauged only by the comfortability of others in my life. Honesty is a hard pill to swallow. Lord knows I know this. I have paid relentlessly for being honest my entire life, but it’s how I am wired. I came into this world wired this way and I’m sure as fuck going out that way. My mother always said there was no point in punishing me because I was a

Alice Works
Dec 31, 2025


One Last Day
Was yesterday. Today something changed. Let me back up and give you some context before I tell you what happened. If you are a regular reader of Chick and Alice blog posts you know all about the healing and growing the entire team has been going through as we navigate our lives and prepare for the 50-state ride for Clearview Works. If not, you can catch up reading our earlier blogs on the website or listen on Spotify . However, today I’m not here to talk about my journey in

Chick Clearview
Dec 29, 2025
As one thing ends another begins
As the year draws to a close many often look back on it and reminisce on everything that’s happened. The good, the bad, the in between. Mood, personality, life style, these all affect how you view the year and how things have happened. Many look back and focus on the good. The joy, the happiness, the times they enjoyed. On the flip side many only pull in what went wrong, the dark side of the year, the things that made them sad. No matter how you look at it, one thing is true.
kevin.froehling
Dec 26, 2025


Security
What does security mean to you? Today at age 68, security looks very different to me. I can also see the difference in what security meant to my generation and the following generations. Everyone has their own idea of what security means to them. It may be job, money, savings, family, home, etc. For myself and in general for my generation, I think, security was job stability, allowing for secure living now and savings/pension for retirement with a spouse and family to enj

Chick Clearview
Dec 24, 2025
On Repeat?
Those of you following along at home have probably noticed a bit of a theme in my blogs. For those of you who haven’t, feel free to look back and give them a read. Many of my posts revolve around the healing journey—the path we each take to get from where we were to where we want, need, or hope to be. Was this planned? No. The reality is that it’s simply what resonates with me right now. One thing I’ve learned is that when something resonates with you, it’s worth taking a mom
kevin.froehling
Dec 22, 2025


Role Reversal
It seems like my entire world is a snowy Christmas Globe right now. Move it, shake it and the view changes. No two days are the same. Since I have been doing so good in my recovery, I’ve had the great opportunity to help others for a change. I spent the day at one hospital when Alice had her surgery. The next day taking my husband to the orthopedic for follow up after his hip replacement. The following day, a day at another hospital for my stepson’s rotator cuff surgery

Chick Clearview
Dec 19, 2025


Kindness and the Words We Choose.
Deep breathe in, deep breathe out. Ok... Hi. Yeah, it's me again, the guy that rambles. So I want to start out by talking about language for a sec. When I was writing my previous post I was kind of rushed, (I tend to do things at the last moment. I.E. Today's post that I didn't finish until 4:00am) and I used a word that overall didn't feel right after I published the post. I used the word goodness. And I just kinda kept ruminating over it because the word choice just felt a
Jen & Pete
Dec 17, 2025
The Grind
Writing is an interesting thing. Some days, words flow like a raging river. They just keep going, nothing stops them, and all you can do is hope your fingers move fast enough to capture everything you want to say. Other days, they are like a leaky faucet: a slow drip that would take hours to fill a small glass. This is the stage I’m at right now as I sit down to write the blog, but it got me thinking. This metaphor can very much be used in life for many things, tying it into
kevin.froehling
Dec 15, 2025
Hunger
This is Jen. Pete and I are not small people. We've tried to lose weight time and again, but always seem to go back to our starting weight or worse. So, we've decided to get weight loss surgery. In the meantime, my medical weight loss doctor was able to get me a prescription to Wegovy, a weekly shot that helps you lose weight by slowing down digestion, thus the gland that shouts "I'm HUNGRY" doesn't shout as loud or as much. I didn't know what to think of it. It's weird givi
Jen & Pete
Dec 12, 2025


Where is that Love?
There has been a thread of music running through me over the past several days. Since Friday, I have been spending a lot of time in my truck, sitting or waiting or driving with a lot of uninterrupted time of listening to my playlist. Even though I’ve heard the songs over and over, they are the songs that mean something to me. And, that meaning can change over time and depending on the current situation in my life. Being alone in the truck listening to my music gives me an

Chick Clearview
Dec 10, 2025
Boundaries
I’ve found myself reflecting on something that’s become an important part of my journey — boundaries. Throughout life, it’s essential to set boundaries for yourself and for others. They often get a bad reputation, seen as walls that keep people out, but in truth, they’re healthy, necessary tools for growth and safety. Boundaries create space for mutual respect and understanding. They protect your mental, emotional, spiritual, and even physical well-being — and in doing so, th
kevin.froehling
Dec 8, 2025
On Goodness
Pete here. What is goodness? What do people feel goodness is? I have been called a "good person" by many people. It isn't anything grand that makes me "good" or "kind". I guess I should start by saying "good" I'm not talking about good vs evil or moral failings. I'm talking more about the little things that I do. I don't want to toot my own horn, I feel like I'm bragging, but the things that I do I notice that other people don't. I don't think maliciously, but it seems that
Jen & Pete
Dec 5, 2025


Growing up Neurospicy
Jen again. I am neurodivergent. I haven't been diagnosed yet with autism or ADHD, but I am on the waiting list. The past few years I've become more and more convinced that I am autistic to some degree, which makes me reflect on growing up different from other people. It's like how you realize how messed up your family is once you go out on your own in the world. Your normal gets adjusted as you meet more people with different ways of life. I'm starting to realize how much of
Jen & Pete
Dec 3, 2025


Changing of the Guard
A former work colleague whom I have considered a good friend ever since, texted me after my last post and the resulting conversation inspired me to chat some with you about how different relationships come and go throughout life, some good, some not so good. And the impact of those different connections as you move through life. Again, some good, some not so good. Some life-changing, others a bothersome mosquito in your ear. I’m referring to it as “The changing of the Gu

Chick Clearview
Dec 1, 2025


