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EXULANSIS
FUCK EXULANSIS!! HEAL OUT LOUD!!! Exulansis is the tendency to stop talking about a personal experience because other people cannot relate to it. Coined by John Koenig in The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, the term describes the quiet isolation of keeping a meaningful story to yourself when listeners meet it with blank stares, pity, or total misunderstanding. Psychological Impact Isolation: Makes a significant personal memory feel like an isolated myth rather than a part of y

Alice Works
Aug 31
It Didn't Start With You
This link is an affiliate link, which means Clearview Works gets a little bit of money for every purchase made through our link. I listened to the audiobook version and did not do any of the activities. I didn't approach this book looking for healing. I thought it might be an interesting addition to my mental toolkit. That being said, I didn't like this book. But, I see it's value and appreciate it's place in the canon of self-help books. This post is built around the notes I
Jen & Pete
Aug 28


Diagnosis
Let me get this out of the way, straight off. What you’re about to read here are my personal rumination’s while replaying various conversations with friends and/or family in my mind. These thoughts are my personal take on things, based on my own experiences, healing and growth. I have no degrees, I’m no therapist and I’m only sharing my personal perspective. I suspect that most of us, or some of our family members have been given various diagnoses as they struggle with dea

Chick Clearview
Aug 26


Farewell
If I could name the year of 2026 I would name it “Full Circle’s”. I have stated many times in previous blogs that everything is connected. Well, this is where I am at today. . . My new way of thinking . . . I am refusing to believe that I had perpetrators from here on out. I am now believing they were only teachers of the dark arts. I am refusing to believe I was a victim. I am now believing I was a student . . . Now the question is what happens when the student surpasses ALL

Alice Works
Aug 24


Packing, Unpacking, Repacking…Repeat…
I’ve been doing a lot of it over the last two months: 5 Motorcycle Trips, 1 Fishing/Camping Trip and 1 Trip to Mom’s in my truck I swear some times, I’ve met myself coming and going. So, I’ve been home for a few days now since the last trip and, finally, going to be home for awhile. I’ve got a lot do catch up on and gotta start getting ready for my garage sale fundraiser. First though, I took a few days to just decompress and enjoy the nirvana of just being back at home. Af

Chick Clearview
Aug 21


Luxuries
As the Ready, Set, Go Day moves closer, preparation takes on a more intense role in our day-to-day lives. We have done many trips, ridden many miles, gone through the trials of trial runs, done over 550-mile riding days back-to-back, worked farms, packed and repacked our bikes, cut back our wardrobes, packed and repacked some more—the list goes on. In other posts, I have talked some about Chick and me crying over our robes together. 😂 Both Chick and I have robes in our daily

Alice Works
Aug 19


It’s a Tough Job, But Somebody Had To Do It
As I’ve mentioned previously, Alice has been my Death Doula and caretaker for the last couple years. Not that I’m at the immediate end of my life, but she said she was in it, not just for while my husband was going through his end of life journey with Alzheimer’s, but through the end of my life. We prefer to call it End of Life Doula rather than Death Doula. One of the many supportive roles of a Doula is to help support an individual’s bucket list. When she took on this rol

Chick Clearview
Aug 17


Wh”Y”
Today’s blog is brought to you by the letter wh“Y”. Wh”y” are you doing this? Wh”y” do it differently? WH”y” keep going? Wh”y” is this important? There are a lot of “whys” in life. People always questioning, wanting to know more about something, wanting to figure out their confusion. It’s one of the basic question words that are learned very early. Toddlers always asking why. Kids playing the why game to try and get a rise out of siblings and parents. Its uses are numerous. T
kevin.froehling
Aug 14


Mindfuckery
Google AI Definition: "Mindfuckery" is a slang, vulgar noun that describes actions, events, or psychological tactics that deliberately destabilize, confuse, or distort someone's perception of reality. It is the practice of executing a "mindfuck"—a situation that forces a person to deeply question their own beliefs, memories, or sanity. I figured that if “Mindfuckery” was my title and what I was going to write about, I better see if my definition of “Mindfuckery” was anywhere

Chick Clearview
Aug 12


Cause and Effect
Cause and effect. It’s a saying that gets through out here and there, often times in the world of science. Every action has an effect on things around it, some times it's just a direct one to one. Other times those effects are the cause of other effects, it spreads out and ripples through everything in some manner and level. Some times people don’t even know that they are impacting something else through their actions, and others they are well aware and in some cases do it de
kevin.froehling
Aug 10


Be the Change…..
You want to see in the world. Whilst Living in a world that's against free-spirited free thinkers and dreamers. Sounds simple enough. It really isn’t. It’s complicated. It’s multi-faceted. It’s dimensional. Strangely matching many symbols from many other cultures. Or is it strange? The inner journey. Self Discovery. Finding one’s self while understanding one’s self is part of the whole. The whole being a representation of one’s self manifested in physical forms. Everything be

Alice Works
Aug 7


Like a Frog Leaping From Lily Pad to Lily Pad
-Early in our marriage, my husband said that about the way I think. He’s right. I cannot even start to defend that. It is exactly how my brain operates. I think…then I immediately leap to the next thought. The next thought may or may not be a straight step according to the logical thinker. It happens at lightning speed and sometimes goes a bit sideways. At heart, I think it’s my free spirit in action. One is never sure where I’m going to land. So what does this have to

Chick Clearview
Aug 5


Throw Your Fit, Just Don’t Quit
Throw Your Fit, Just don’t Quit December 2025 I love those moments in time where you find yourself giving advice and in that very moment you realize the words coming out of your mouth are exactly what you needed to hear and then you are like ohh shit. Well, guess I need to back that shit up now. In all honestly I am probably in the middle of a fit throwing moment right now. I don’t want to talk to nobody. I am pissed because I am not smoking, pissed because I am stuck in my h

Alice Works
Aug 3


