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“Is Love Worth It?”
As I listened to a heart felt break down about the strenuous back and forth of emotions on the subject of love from a very respected and dear friend of mine. I was asked this question. “Is love really worth it?” At the time it killed me to have to respond with “I do not think I am in the right state of mind when it comes to love to answer this question and be much help to you and afraid I’ll give ill advisement.” The question came in about the sacrifices we make of ourselves

Alice Works
Feb 27


Unwrapping My Mind
Before I begin…please know this…I am not writing this for sympathy. I am writing it as a part of processing it for myself, as well as to continue to follow our mission to openly and honestly share our struggles and paths of healing. As you know, my husband passed away in his sleep a week ago Monday. He’s at peace now. We are grateful that he still knew us and knew he loved us and he didn’t have to suffer through the worst to come. But, HOLY COW! REALLY? Nobody really exp

Chick Clearview
Feb 25


Tramp Stamped
November 2025 I am in the mood to swing my heavy hitter. Now, question is do I ease into it for all the sensitive Sallys of the world, or say fuck it and bite the bullet? Short and sweet or straight shooter. I am leaning towards straight shooting & fuck it today, not like I have more than 20-ish readers, and my supposed friends and family don’t share my shit anyway. Do not mistake me, this isn’t not about them. I’m leaving that in the dust with a middle finger in the air with

Alice Works
Feb 23
Two sides of the coin
Masculine vs. Feminine Many of you are probably thinking this is a blog about the differences between the two groups, the ongoing battle that comes generation after generation of back and forth. But it’s not. These are simply two sides of the same coin. Within each of us lives both. Yes, you read that right, both sides live within each of us. I know that doesn’t sit well with some people the “manly man’s man” out there saying, “That’s bullshit, there ain’t no girly side in me
kevin.froehling
Feb 20
Perspective on Goodbye
Throughout life, people and things come and go. You never really know when the last “goodbye” will be for anyone or anything. It could be a family member passing, a friendship or relationship ending for whatever reason, people moving, pets, items you have had for years that get worn or broken, kids moving away, etc. Whatever it is, there comes a time when things leave your life. It’s not an easy thing for many people to sit with or understand. The word “goodbye” implies an en
kevin.froehling
Feb 18


(Not) Looking For Love in All the Wrong Places
No man, but the coolest purse ever and a pair of riding jeans. Life is good. This afternoon I attended a biker party being held by a local chapter of a national group dedicated to biker safety and education for bikers and the public. I’ve attended some of their events in the past and am starting to actively participate in their events this year. I don’t know many people yet and was going alone so I wasn’t quite sure how it would go. Well, I had a blast. I met a lot of peo

Chick Clearview
Feb 16


Motorcycles Don’t Have Reverse
Written 2.11.26, before writing Winging. I’ve undoubtedly, willingly stepped into my Villain Era, simultaneously embodying and embracing my dark feminine side (see definitions below). All in one go. I realized the last post I made about the pot on the back burner was rapidly boiling. Well, that pot has been simmering slowly, burning more like an acid than boiling water. Since my second-to-last post, I’ve been dealt a massive life blow that even a decade ago, or even half a de

Alice Works
Feb 13


Winging It
The most recent board meeting I found myself needing to reflect on a few things in life. Not that this is anything new for me but from what my team had to say. It went in line with everything else I got going on. They figured with all the time I have had off, that I needed to give an update, and let people know I am alive, so here I am still breathing still typing. They also agreed that I need to stop holding back and beating around the bush. Now in a way because of my histor

Alice Works
Feb 11
Making Stuff
I am rarely without something to do. I knit, embroider, draw, paint, etc. Once upon a time when I was considering grad school, I thought I might become an Art Therapist. Art Therapy is a technique that allows a person to process emotions, reduce stress, and improve self esteem through the creation of art. Art Therapy doesn't require any artistic talent, just the willingness to explore yourself through creating art. For me, making stuff is a good way to self-regulate. It can b
Jen & Pete
Feb 9


The Next Group
I have been asked a few times what the drive is for me to work on the nonprofit. Outside of being drawn to it, the drive to move forward, and the desire to help people, a lot of it boils down to the next generation. They say that each generation does the best they can with the next. Raising children, trying to set the up for success and making sure things are as good as they can be. Well with the world as it is today, that seems like a daunting task to undertake. There is mor
kevin.froehling
Feb 6
Been there. Done that. Why am I still doing it?
When I said this to Alice we were talking about the fact that I seem to be in an abusive relationship with my cat. My mom said the same thing earlier in the day, when I was relaying his antics to her. He can be the wildest cat when he wants to play and I have to pay close attention so he doesn’t bite me. He came with a biting problem, I have the scars to prove it and I’m still working on breaking that habit. When he’s in a biting mood I make him stay on the floor and I pl

Chick Clearview
Feb 4


Time Keep Ticking
As we draw closer to the end of the first month of the new year I’m reminded how time continues to move, unchanging. It doesn’t matter who you are or what you do, time is time and keeps going. This makes it one of the most valuable commodities a person can have. You don’t get more and what you have spent can never be brought back. All you can do is flow with it and use it as best you deem fit. What you do with it obviously differs from person to person given who they are and
kevin.froehling
Feb 2


