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Where is that Love?
There has been a thread of music running through me over the past several days. Since Friday, I have been spending a lot of time in my truck, sitting or waiting or driving with a lot of uninterrupted time of listening to my playlist. Even though I’ve heard the songs over and over, they are the songs that mean something to me. And, that meaning can change over time and depending on the current situation in my life. Being alone in the truck listening to my music gives me an

Chick Clearview
Dec 10, 2025
Boundaries
I’ve found myself reflecting on something that’s become an important part of my journey — boundaries. Throughout life, it’s essential to set boundaries for yourself and for others. They often get a bad reputation, seen as walls that keep people out, but in truth, they’re healthy, necessary tools for growth and safety. Boundaries create space for mutual respect and understanding. They protect your mental, emotional, spiritual, and even physical well-being — and in doing so, th
kevin.froehling
Dec 8, 2025
On Goodness
Pete here. What is goodness? What do people feel goodness is? I have been called a "good person" by many people. It isn't anything grand that makes me "good" or "kind". I guess I should start by saying "good" I'm not talking about good vs evil or moral failings. I'm talking more about the little things that I do. I don't want to toot my own horn, I feel like I'm bragging, but the things that I do I notice that other people don't. I don't think maliciously, but it seems that
Jen & Pete
Dec 5, 2025


Growing up Neurospicy
Jen again. I am neurodivergent. I haven't been diagnosed yet with autism or ADHD, but I am on the waiting list. The past few years I've become more and more convinced that I am autistic to some degree, which makes me reflect on growing up different from other people. It's like how you realize how messed up your family is once you go out on your own in the world. Your normal gets adjusted as you meet more people with different ways of life. I'm starting to realize how much of
Jen & Pete
Dec 3, 2025


Changing of the Guard
A former work colleague whom I have considered a good friend ever since, texted me after my last post and the resulting conversation inspired me to chat some with you about how different relationships come and go throughout life, some good, some not so good. And the impact of those different connections as you move through life. Again, some good, some not so good. Some life-changing, others a bothersome mosquito in your ear. I’m referring to it as “The changing of the Gu

Chick Clearview
Dec 1, 2025


Fair
"How is that fair?" That's a question I have heard many times throughout my life. "That's unfair, how is that fair, why is that fair?" Depending on the situation and my mood my responses vary from "It's not, I don't know," all the way to" that's life, or life isn't fair." Now the real question is "what IS fair?" What do you consider fair. I find this changes from one person to the next. Each one having different ideas of what fair is. Some want everything to be equal across t
kevin.froehling
Nov 28, 2025


