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Security
What does security mean to you? Today at age 68, security looks very different to me. I can also see the difference in what security meant to my generation and the following generations. Everyone has their own idea of what security means to them. It may be job, money, savings, family, home, etc. For myself and in general for my generation, I think, security was job stability, allowing for secure living now and savings/pension for retirement with a spouse and family to enj

Chick Clearview
Dec 24, 2025
On Repeat?
Those of you following along at home have probably noticed a bit of a theme in my blogs. For those of you who haven’t, feel free to look back and give them a read. Many of my posts revolve around the healing journey—the path we each take to get from where we were to where we want, need, or hope to be. Was this planned? No. The reality is that it’s simply what resonates with me right now. One thing I’ve learned is that when something resonates with you, it’s worth taking a mom
kevin.froehling
Dec 22, 2025


Role Reversal
It seems like my entire world is a snowy Christmas Globe right now. Move it, shake it and the view changes. No two days are the same. Since I have been doing so good in my recovery, I’ve had the great opportunity to help others for a change. I spent the day at one hospital when Alice had her surgery. The next day taking my husband to the orthopedic for follow up after his hip replacement. The following day, a day at another hospital for my stepson’s rotator cuff surgery

Chick Clearview
Dec 19, 2025


Kindness and the Words We Choose.
Deep breathe in, deep breathe out. Ok... Hi. Yeah, it's me again, the guy that rambles. So I want to start out by talking about language for a sec. When I was writing my previous post I was kind of rushed, (I tend to do things at the last moment. I.E. Today's post that I didn't finish until 4:00am) and I used a word that overall didn't feel right after I published the post. I used the word goodness. And I just kinda kept ruminating over it because the word choice just felt a
Jen & Pete
Dec 17, 2025
The Grind
Writing is an interesting thing. Some days, words flow like a raging river. They just keep going, nothing stops them, and all you can do is hope your fingers move fast enough to capture everything you want to say. Other days, they are like a leaky faucet: a slow drip that would take hours to fill a small glass. This is the stage I’m at right now as I sit down to write the blog, but it got me thinking. This metaphor can very much be used in life for many things, tying it into
kevin.froehling
Dec 15, 2025
Hunger
This is Jen. Pete and I are not small people. We've tried to lose weight time and again, but always seem to go back to our starting weight or worse. So, we've decided to get weight loss surgery. In the meantime, my medical weight loss doctor was able to get me a prescription to Wegovy, a weekly shot that helps you lose weight by slowing down digestion, thus the gland that shouts "I'm HUNGRY" doesn't shout as loud or as much. I didn't know what to think of it. It's weird givi
Jen & Pete
Dec 12, 2025


