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Been there. Done that. Why am I still doing it?
When I said this to Alice we were talking about the fact that I seem to be in an abusive relationship with my cat. My mom said the same thing earlier in the day, when I was relaying his antics to her. He can be the wildest cat when he wants to play and I have to pay close attention so he doesn’t bite me. He came with a biting problem, I have the scars to prove it and I’m still working on breaking that habit. When he’s in a biting mood I make him stay on the floor and I pl

Chick Clearview
Feb 4


Time Keep Ticking
As we draw closer to the end of the first month of the new year I’m reminded how time continues to move, unchanging. It doesn’t matter who you are or what you do, time is time and keeps going. This makes it one of the most valuable commodities a person can have. You don’t get more and what you have spent can never be brought back. All you can do is flow with it and use it as best you deem fit. What you do with it obviously differs from person to person given who they are and
kevin.froehling
Feb 2


Frankly, I Don’t Want to Talk About It
And, I’m not really sure anybody wants to hear about it. Today I’m doing what I gotta do. Gave my grandson a ride to work and taking care of medical appointments. But, I’m doing it with a heavy heart. Today would be my son’s 51st birthday. It’s been just over a year since he died at age 49. I spent some time texting with his best friend this morning. It was comforting to spend a few minutes with someone who also misses him and it was special to hear from him today. L

Chick Clearview
Jan 30
Spoons
Pete & I rely on Spoon Theory as a handy shortcut with each other for our energy levels & ability to do things. Spoon Theory uses the idea that you start each day with a set amount of spoons. Everything you do costs a spoon. Waking up, eating, getting dressed, bathing, commuting, working, everything costs a spoon. Understanding how many spoons each daily activity costs require introspection & practice, & is highly worth it. All healing requires introspection, even if it's onl
Jen & Pete
Jan 28
It’s a ShitShow
There is so much going on with family right now, I wouldn’t even know where to begin. At this point, I don’t really want to get started on it, because, what the fuck? I really just want to pack up and leave now. Disappear from my life. Now I know I really can’t do that, but it sure sounds good right about now. So, what do I talk about today? I don’t have a lot of healing or growing to share. I’m kind of stuck in this place of inertia dealing with my own physical recover

Chick Clearview
Jan 26


Envy
Jen here. I'm always a little envious of people with strong family ties. I'm amazed at the people who actually enjoy being around their families, and their moms in particular. The best I can say about my relationship with my mom is it's complicated. I don't have a bad relationship with my parents; I have a cautious relationship. I could, & some would say I should, go no contact, but I won't. I am, however, pretty low contact. Having enough physical distance to be inconvenien
Jen & Pete
Jan 23


