Threads Between Worlds

As of recent I had a reader reach out to ask me to elaborate on “Soul Ties”. This reader was inspired to learn more by reading one of my old posts “Squirrels”.

This absolutely excites me. I love research, I love talking about these things, and I love being able to share parts of who I am and what I have experienced especially if it helps one to better understand another’s point of view. I am always excited to listen to others and their experiences because there is always more to learn. I do not know everything and sure as shit love learning as much as I can. So, to help in this endeavor I did a quick google search, went with AI Overview mode. After I was done reading about that I would like to do a deep-ish dive into my old blog post “Squirrels” posted under the month of September but actually written February of 2023. A lot can happen and change in that amount of time especially if you have a life pattern similar to mine.

Google Search - AI Overview

A soul tie is a deep, intense emotional or spiritual connection between two people, which can form in any close relationship, not just romantic ones. This bond can be positive, leading to a sense of deep love and understanding, or negative, resulting in jealousy or codependency. A key characteristic is its impact, which can linger long after a relationship has ended. 

How soul ties form

• Emotional bonding: Strong emotional connections, whether through love, anger, or forgiveness, can create a soul tie.

• Physical intimacy: Physical and sexual relationships are often cited as powerful ways soul ties form.

• Shared experiences: Both positive and negative shared experiences can forge these deep bonds.

• Spiritual connections: Shared spiritual beliefs and practices are also thought to form soul ties. 

Signs of a soul tie

Healthy soul ties:

• Feeling inspired and safe around the person

• Unconditional love and acceptance

• Mutual understanding and respect 

Unhealthy soul ties:

• Intense jealousy or possessiveness

• Feeling empty or anxious when apart

• Needing the other person's approval for decisions

• Feeling drained or anxious after spending time with them 

Soulmates

A soulmate is a person with whom one shares a profound, natural, and often unexplainable connection. This bond goes beyond ordinary relationships, fostering a sense of deep understanding, mutual acceptance, and support. 

Key Characteristics of a Soulmate Connection

• Deep Understanding: Soulmates often "get" each other on a fundamental level, sometimes even communicating without words.

• Mutual Support and Growth: This person inspires you to become your best self and supports your goals and aspirations unconditionally. The relationship challenges both individuals to grow beyond their limitations.

• Sense of Familiarity: When you meet, there's often an immediate feeling of having known them forever, a sense of "coming home".

• Authenticity and Safety: You feel safe enough to be your true, vulnerable self without fear of judgment.

• Shared Values: While personalities might differ and complement each other, soulmates typically share the same core values and life goals. 

Not Exclusively Romantic

While the term often carries a romantic connotation in popular culture, a soulmate can be a friend, a family member, a mentor, or a business partner. The connection is not limited by relationship labels and the love can be platonic. 

Soulmates vs. Twin Flames

In some spiritual beliefs, "soulmate" and "twin flame" are distinct concepts. 

• Soulmates are two separate souls that are deeply linked and compatible, and a person can have multiple soulmates throughout their life.

• Twin Flames are considered the two halves of a single, original soul that was split apart, with the goal of reuniting for accelerated spiritual growth. These relationships can be intense and challenging, and do not always result in a stable, long-term romantic partnership. 

Ultimately, whether soulmates exist, and in what form, is a matter of personal belief. Many sources emphasize that deep, fulfilling connections often require work and commitment, rather than just being a predetermined destiny. 

Now, that everyone is up to speed, I would like to expand on what I have learned since February of 2023 about the person I wrote about as well as on a few other things I have learned or didn’t disclose. Whilst digressing on then versus now.

“Squirrels” blog posted month of September 2025, written February of 2023 was in fact written about Kevin Froehling . Clearview Works Co-Founder & Vice President, also taking on the roles of Secretary, Treasurer and Project Manager until we expand. I referenced Kevin and I having a Soul Tie. There has always been a connection, a kinship, and an understanding of each other that is not of the normal standards. Since 2023 and getting to know each other more in depth I can honestly say he’d be considered a Soul Mate. Does this mean a romantic involvement? Answer is no. Is it possible? Well, anything is possible. Is it in the future? Can’t predict the future in the sense people think. There is free will that has to be considered on all sides. Is Kevin the only person I have a Soul Tie to or consider a Soul Mate. Absolutely not.

Am I free to write about all of my soul ties and soul mates? No, I am not. I don’t have permission from all of them. However I am able when it comes to anyone in the non profit as of now. We are about accountability, learning, healing, teaching and so much more.

When it comes to Kevin, when we first met there was an automatic respect, loyalty, trust, kinship and safety that the friendship was built on. This stood out because of the life that I had before meeting him. These attributes never come automatic for me. I have had dreams about Kevin for 8 years now. Dreams are metaphors to be deciphered. As time went on they became more frequent. Discussing them with my spouse as we picked apart every detail. After many conversations with my spouse. A time had come where it was time to approach Kevin about it. This is when everything started to unfold. The dreams slowed down as long as we continued to communicate. The more we communicated the more things unfolded. During this time I was struggling to understand my mother’s designs and research for the 340 acre self sustaining green house. I was aggravated and frustrated with it. She spoke in riddles and hippie speak, even in her presentation. I was disappointed in the fact that I was her daughter but could not figure this shit out. So, with everything Kevin and I was deciphering and learning about the astral world and how much we work together in the other realm. I gave the plans to Kevin to look at. This mother fucker…yes still in my feelings about the fact that she’s MY MOM and he just flips through the stack of papers and starts explaining everything as if he was the one that designed it. I just starred at him. He remembered things no one else ever would, was able to cross reference, and any off the wall questions I had about it, he would be like its on this page, and flip through it and explain while showing me. I was flabbergasted. Who the hell is this guy? How the hell did you do that? It’s like he was specifically placed in my path for this reason. I won’t speak too much on Kevin’s experiences those are his to tell. The dreamscape in which both of us walked, was together. Mutually shared space in another realm if you will. I wasn’t the only one. Platonic in nature. After being able to share my dreams with Kevin and Kevin share his when he did. This was not my path alone. It is shared. A project of this magnitude absolutely needs a team because there is no way one person could do this alone. The dreams started making sense when we started communicating and putting the puzzle pieces together. Now, this whole shebang is an absolute co-creation.

Is Kevin the only one I have had dreams/visions about? Absolutely not. It’s not all about Kevin. Does he have a huge role, ohhh fuck yes. But it’s not all about him.

Another Soul Tie/Soul Mate is hands down Chick. Same instant connection. Same kinship. Dreamt about her before meeting her, and continued to dream about her. Visions came in as well. Also a friendship/relationship that not many can understand like Kevin and myself. Chick is the one accompanying me on the 50 state motorcycle ride.

This has not been my first run at this. I tried for 2016 and it was derailed. For reasons I understand now. There are many people that I thought would be a good idea to have on the road with me however over time since I have been working and developing this for 20 years. Chick is the one. Dreamt about it, dreamt about her before meeting her, then after learning more, being able to communicate and share our experiences. I wouldn’t want anyone else but Chick by my side. It’s Chick’s place and hers only. With all I know and have seen in the other realm as well as the physical she was made and had been preparing for this her whole life, as I was doing the same. We were like magnets through our time all leading and pulling towards each other to finally meet in that Nail Salon. We both trained and prepared for this “chance” meeting without knowing it but now we understand things that led us to us.

EVERYTHING is CONNECTED, I have said this before and will die on this hill.

There is so much to dive into here. Dreams, Visions, Other Realms, Walking between worlds, connections to the other team mates, astrology, the list goes on. I follow the information that comes from the other side. Always have and always will.

Does this sound crazy? Oh sure to the disconnected ones, absolutely.

There are tons of books written about it. Ones I could recommend for all the times I had to research all I was experiencing.

My number one challenge was getting to a point to comfortably talk about the things that thousands were burned at the stake for, stoned to death for, hung for, etc…

My outlook now is simply this. I have been accused of things I have never done due to insecurities, ignorance, jealousy, yada yada blah blah yank yank. I am to the point where I would gladly die or be ridiculed for WHO I ABSOLUTELY 💯 AM, than for reasons I am NOT. So, here is more of who I truly am below the surface, and you my dear readers/listeners are privy to another deep dive into one of the off shoots of the hole is which Alice resides, with a rabbit that can maneuver all her tunnels while keeping everyone in line with time.

Soul Ties and Soul Mates come in many shapes, sizes and forms. Regardless there is always something to learn and grow from each and every one. No matter the shape, size or form of the connection.

Much Love and Gratitude

Alice